A birth partner might be the baby’s father, your partner, a doula, a family member or friend.
Birth partners play an essential role throughout childbirth, from the antenatal period during labour and throughout the postnatal period.
There are lots of benefits to having a birth partner. There is even evidence that having a birth partner who provides continuous, one-to-one support, may help you cope better with labour and be happier with the birth experience.
Some birth partners may occasionally feel like a “spare part” during labour, however birth partners are a crucial part of the birth experience. Having a birth plan that details how the birth partner would like to be involved in the birth can assist the midwife to help the birth partner fulfil their role, helping them feel involved and included in the birth experience.
Some things to think of as the birth partner and to discuss with the person you are supporting:
Do you want an active role such as cutting the cord after the birth?
After baby is born, we recommend that baby be placed in skin-to skin contact with the birthing parent until the first feed. After this time, would you be interested in having skin-to-skin contact with baby?
Consider having the above as part of the birth plan and mentioning to the midwife.
As a birth partner, your role will be led by the person you are supporting.
It helps to be prepared, so that when the time comes you feel that you know what you need to do. To help you prepare
The most important thing that you can do as a birth partner is just be there for them.
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